Sophia Bush opens up on why she’s not trying to find “the one,” and you need to hear it

Sophia Bush opens up on why she’s not trying to find “the one,” and you need to hear it
Sophia Bush opens up on why she’s not trying to find “the one,” and you need to hear it More

Everyone has a different view on relationships and we love to hear them all. Actress Sophia Bush finally reveals what she learned from her divorce from Chad Michael Murray. Her honesty and relationship advice is definitely something you’re going to want to hear.

It’s very rare that Bush talks about Murray and their relationship, but she just opened up about it in a letter for Cosmopolitan’s February issue and her revelations are really interesting.

In 2005, the Chicago P.D. actress married her One Tree Hill co-star, but five months later they called it quits. Now more than 10 years later, Bush is talking about that romance (without including Murray’s name) and opening up about her thoughts on relationships in general.

“In my ’20s, when I was starting out my career as an actor, I wasn’t looking for a relationship, but one found me and became serious, even though I hadn’t planned to settle down until my ’30s,” Bush wrote in her Cosmopolitan essay. “But when the person you’re with asks you to marry him, you think: ‘This must be happening because it’s supposed to.’”

Instead of throwing Murray under the bus or dwelling on the failed marriage, Bush continued to open up about romance and the crazy need to find “The One.”

“I refuse to let that one relationship define me, which is why I’ve done my best to avoid discussing it for 10 years,” she explained. “The reality is…