2016’s most aggravating celebrity tweets and apologies

PASADENA, CA - JANUARY 09: Actress Lena Dunham speaks onstage during the 'Girls' panel discussion at the HBO portion of the 2014 Winter Television Critics Association tour at the Langham Hotel on January 9, 2014 in Pasadena, California. (Photo by Frederick M. Brown/Getty Images)
PASADENA, CA – JANUARY 09: Actress Lena Dunham speaks onstage during the ‘Girls’ panel discussion at the HBO portion of the 2014 Winter Television Critics Association tour at the Langham Hotel on January 9, 2014 in Pasadena, California. (Photo by Frederick M. Brown/Getty Images)

If there’s is one thing most of us can agree on, 2016 was an awful year for celebrities on social media. On Twitter, Instagram and other forms of social media they gave us all manner of posts that were offensive, self-indulgent or simply reckless, sometimes all of the above.

In many cases, celebs dug themselves in deeper trying to say they were sorry, then failed at the basic art of apologizing, which is to issue a statement that expresses genuine remorse, clears the air and allows people to move on.

This list is by no means comprehensive but that’s only because there were too many offenses to properly catalog. Also included here are posts like Steve Martin’s deleted Carrie Fisher tribute, that were not in and of themselves aggravating, but existed within a swirl of outrage taken to new levels of ridiculousness.

Here, then, is our list of some of 2016’s most infamous celebrity posts:

Actor, musician and writer Steve Martin practices backstage before an appearance with the Steep Canyon Rangers band at Largo at the Coronet Theatre in Los Angeles, Friday, March 19, 2010.
Steve Martin practices backstage before an performing in Los Angeles in 2010.

Steve Martin’s “sexist” tribute to Carrie Fisher

The comedian sparked a fierce debate this week about the nature of sexism after posting a tribute to the “Star Wars” actress that some found concerning. He quickly deleted it.

In the tweet, which he posted following Fisher’s death Tuesday, but later removed, he said: “When I was a young man, Carrie Fisher was the most beautiful creature I had ever seen. She turned out to be witty and bright as well.”

The backlash had to do with what some believed was Martin’s focus on Fisher’s physical appearance instead of her talent and work. But others jumped to Martin’s defense, saying there was nothing sexist about him complimenting a woman for both her beauty and her brains. And, still others said it was plain wrong to lash out at someone who was trying to express genuine sadness in time of national mourning. Finally, many thought people were just being WAY too sensitive.

If you were upset by Steve Martin’s tweet about Carrie Fisher, congratulations! You are officially addicted to outrage.

Now, seek help.

— Peter Cook (@_Peter_Cook) December 28, 2016

Lena Dunham’s non-apology apology for abortion comment

AUSTIN, TX - MARCH 12: Writer/Director/Actress Lena Dunham attends
Lena Dunham at the 2012 SXSW Music, Film + Interactive Festival in Austin, Texas. (Photo by Michael Buckner/Getty Images for SXSW)

Many found the “Girls” creator to be an especially annoying social media presence in 2016 — with her topless selfies and her gripes to Amy Schumer, posted in her online Lenny newsletter, about how New York Giants star Odell Beckham Jr. wouldn’t talk to her at the Met Gala because, she assumed, he wasn’t interested in a woman with her kind of looks.

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But she really stuck her foot in it when she talked on her podcast about wishing she had had an abortion.

In praising herself for going out to fight for women’s reproductive rights, Dunham said on her podcast, “Now I can say that I still haven’t had an abortion, but I wish I had.”

When it came time to apologize on Instagram, she didn’t just come out and start with a simple “I’m sorry, I was wrong.” She instead wrapped up her so-called apology in a meandering, self-congratulatory rationalization that left open the question of whether she really felt remorse.

My latest podcast episode was meant to tell a multifaceted story about reproductive choice in America, to explain the many reasons women do or don’t choose to have children and what bodily autonomy really means. I’m so proud of the medley of voices in the episode. I truly hope a distasteful joke on my part won’t diminish the amazing work of all the women who participated. My words were spoken from a sort of “delusional girl” persona I often inhabit, a girl who careens between wisdom and ignorance (that’s what my TV show is too) and it didn’t translate. That’s my fault. I would never, ever intentionally trivialize the emotional and physical challenges of terminating a pregnancy. My only goal is to increase awareness and decrease stigma. I take reproductive choice in America more seriously than I take literally anything else, and therefore own full responsibility for any words I speak that don’t convey this truth clearly. I know plenty of people will never like a thing that leaves my lips, mea culpas or no, but this apology is for the women who have placed their trust in me. You mean everything to me. My life is and always will be devoted to reproductive justice and freedom. You know how in some households you curse and have to put money in a jar? Well in mine, if you mess up your pro-choice messaging you have to give a sizable donation to abortion funds (https://abortionfunds.org/need-abortion) in New York, Texas and Ohio